Sunday, 26 June 2016

Comment Of The Day #8

Model Xenia Deli, whose most notable role includes starring in the Justin Bieber video for "What Do You Mean?" (which has been viewed over 1 billion times on YouTube), hit the headlines recently after marrying a 62-year-old Egyptian businessman (at the ripe old age of 26).

[Read the original article here: "Justin Bieber's former flame Xenia Deli, 26, marries Egyptian businessman, 62, in a lavish wedding" - Daily Mail, 24/06/2016]

I guess in this case, the dollar-signs-in-the-eyes is a more fitting emoji than the eye hearts.

To quote Lady Gaga:

"That’s M-O-N-E-Y, so sexy…"

Sunday, 19 June 2016

Modern Day Dating Dilemmas

Boy Meets Girl.
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Image credit: kpgolfpro
Boy Likes Girl.
Girl Likes Boy.
They become boyfriend/girlfriend.
And they lived happily ever after.

Remember when relationships used to be simple? Back when there was little game-playing and indecisiveness in taking the plunge?

Yeah neither do I.

Dating is far too complicated these days - more complicated than it probably needs to be really. Imagine how many potential relationships could have flourished without so many modern day distractions?

Maybe I’m just viewing the past with rose-tinted glasses. Perhaps people back then had just as much trouble finding "The One" as people do now.

But it doesn’t seem that way. I work with a more mature workforce and the majority of people I work with are married with families. They’ve been married for years. They started their families at my age. Some have even been married more than once and I’m amazed - it’s hard enough to get a guy to commit and call you his girlfriend these days, let alone have him get down on one knee.

So what changed?

Saturday, 30 April 2016

Help to Buy ISAs: How It All Works

I’ve never been overly-knowledgeable when it comes to matters of personal finance – too much talk of variable interest rates and AERs and I start to zone out.

help-to-buy-isa-mortage-help-imageIt’s quite contradictory really, as I’m quite a good saver and I generally have a clear idea of exactly just how much money is going in and out of my bank account. You would think I’d be keen to be banking-savvy to maximise my saving potential.

A guy I was formerly seeing introduced me to the world of ISAs, practically begging me to open one up. He went as far as to setting up the whole thing for me online.

And I’m glad/grateful he did, because I now earn an extra £100 a year…as opposed to the 0.02p I was earning from my savings before.

But now that time has come around again, as there’s a new type of ISA account on the market that I really need to brush up on.

Sunday, 17 April 2016

Help! My Washing Machine Leaves White Streaks On My Clothes

I’m a bit of a neat/tidy/clean freak but laundry has got to be my least favourite domestic chore, not least because my wardrobe consists of a lot of black and after EVERY wash I have these annoying white streaks on my clothes.

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Once dried and ready to wear, I would have to get a damp sponge and pat the area to get rid of the white marks. I can’t believe I’d been dutifully just doing this for years before I finally decided to Google a remedy.

So, first things first – locate the source of the problem. Answer: surplus detergent. I decided to go easy on the washing powder with my next wash but sadly, the white streaks remained ever-present

I then came across some advice which suggested just doing an extra rinse with your wash. Unfortunately, my washing machine doesn’t have that option so once the cycle was complete, I just ran the "prewash" programme. I believe the "handwash" setting will work too if you have it.

I was pleasantly surprised that this actually worked! If you’re worried about the extra cost, you can always run the wash during off-peak hours where the energy tarrif is cheaper. Generally, these progammes only add an extra 15-20 minutes onto your wash anyway.

Saturday, 9 April 2016

Comment Of The Day #7

In the ongoing train wreck that is YouTube star Trish Paytas’s love life, she was recently left wondering if a guy she dated had been using her to raise his profile the whole time.

When Trish detailed how the guy had ended things and how sad and hurt he seemed to be by it, she was left reeling when his social media posts told another story. She took to YouTube to vent her frustration in a (now deleted) video and soon her fans descended on his Instagram page:

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instagram.com/seanvanderwilt










Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned…or indeed, her loyal online following.

Friday, 25 March 2016

What Sex and the City Can Teach Us About Female Friendships

You can’t deny the popularity of television show Sex and the City. Somewhat of a cultural phenomenon in the late ‘90s/early 00s, the success of the show left some critics baffled at its popularity.

The truth is, the show was popular because most modern women were able to relate to some of the situations the female characters found themselves in. 

Sure, the fabulous apartments, expensive shoe collection and cheap laughs and innuendo-filled gags did (at times) take away from the realism of the show but generally, a lot of single career women could relate to the relationship woes featured in the show.

The lasting effect of the series is that now, a lot of females aspire to the "Sex and the City lifestyle" – the great jobs, the great apartments, the glam wardrobe, going out for cocktails etc. 

A photo posted by SJP (@sarahjessicaparker) on

But it seems a lot of women are forgetting to aspire to one key component of the show: the strong female friendships.

Sunday, 6 March 2016

How To Talk To Women

It REALLY p*sses me off when guys don’t know how to talk to girls properly, or talk down to them in a lame attempt at flirting.

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Image credit: Unsplash
I know I’m not the only one to experience this, and my friend recently told me about an occasion where she and her friend were approached by two guys. They got into a seemingly pleasant conversation and when it ended, the guys asked for their number. They politely declined, causing the guys to verbally abuse them both.

Charming.

I’m not talking about shy or introverted guys by the way, because I can sympathise with those types, and once they open up you realise they make wonderful conversationalists.